Why do you persist in blaming yourself for what happened?

你何必为已发生的事没完没了地自责？

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It has so happened that what you have done has been the greatest good for her.

事情就这样发生了，你所做的是对她最大的好处。

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You need to be able to convince employers that, regardless of what happened in the past, you are a strong candidate for the position and can do the job.

你需要让雇主们相信不管以前发生了什么，你都是这个职位强有力的竞争者，你能胜任这份工作。

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Now, whoever guessed it was a pop tart was correct, that's what it happened to be so you get extra credit for that.

那些猜是果酱馅饼的人猜对了,就是这种食品,猜对的人可以获得额外加分

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What...even if there was no single event, what would you say happened... what was the role of government ? for example, in the sudden growth?

即便没有什么转折性大事件，您觉得是什么原因。,比如说在这次经济腾飞中,印度政府扮演了什么样的角色？

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And just to give you some small defense of that approach, I always like to ask students, "Suppose we didn't have a single historical record, no newspaper, no diaries. You know nothing totally reliable for what happened in the latter part of the eighteenth century in America."

我可以给你们一个反驳的理由,我总是问学生们,"如果没有历史文献,报纸和日记,那么对于美国十八世纪后期的历史,你们将一无所知"

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You know, nothing is harder right now to getting insurance than if you are self-employed or you work for a small business, because what happened is you don't have enough workers for the insurance company to really want your business.

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Then you check your results (looking for deviations between what you were expecting and what actually happened) and finally, if necessary, you alter and improve the process.

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