Because my parents have to work, we do the housework, we never complain.
因为我的父母要上班,所以我们做家务。我们从来不报怨。
Every behavior has a positive motive (NLP Quote), and every motive has an instinctive need. Knowing this, we never complain or blame.
每个行为背后都有正面的动机(NLP语录),每一个动机背后都有本能的需求。了解这些,我们会少抱怨和责怪。
We can explain that we'd like it if they helped more, or we can complain that they never help, which takes us to rule No 4.
我们可以如此解释,如果他们先替我们多想想,我就不会跟他们过意不去,反过来,我们如果老是抱怨他们,他们也不会主动过来了解我们的想法,现在再谈谈规则之四。
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