Lower your expectations - we are never disappointed unless we have expectations.
降低你的期望-没有期望,就不会失望。
This is today: we know what's going on. The things far away are partly or completely hidden: This is the future - we have expectations but we don't really know.
今天发生的一切我们已了然于心,而远处的未来还是部分或完全隐藏起来的——我们对它有所期望,但无法看得透彻。
Think about it: when we have expectations, and things don't go the way we expect (which happens quite often, as we're not good prognosticators), we are disappointed, frustrated.
想想看:当我们有期望时,事情不会按期待的一样(这常有发生,因为我们不是预言家),我们很失望、沮丧。
What will make a difference to our levels of wellbeing is if we have right vs. wrong expectations.
能影响幸福水平的,是我们的期望是正确还是错误。
But we have very clear expectations about what we expect in classrooms,
我们会很明确地说出课堂上该做的事情,
And if we have high expectations, if we see the seed of greatness in the students, that seed of greatness is more likely to flourish.
如果我们有很高的期望,如果我们在学生身上看到伟大的潜能,那么这种潜能就更可能被激发。
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