To listen is to say, "I value your opinion, I care about our relationship, and you matter to me.

去倾听，就是在传达这样的信息：“我重视你的观点，我在乎我们的关系，你对我很重要。”

youdao

When I listen to my children, when I listen to my wife, when I listen to anyone, I’m saying, “I value what you have to say. I value your opinion.

我在听孩子们和我说话，我的妻子，听任何一个人，我听他们对我说话，就是在说，“我很看重你说的，我很看重你的意见。

youdao

When I listen to my children, when I listen to my wife, when I listen to anyone, I'm saying, “I value what you have to say. I value your opinion.

我在听孩子们和我说话，我的妻子，听任何一个人，我听他们对我说话，就是在说，“我很看重你说的，我很看重你的意见。

youdao