Am I to understand that you refuse?

你是告诉我你拒绝了？

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You were quite within your rights to refuse to cooperate with him.

你完全有权拒绝与他合作。

《柯林斯英汉双解大词典》

They have told me that you refuse to send her to church and to school.

他们跟我说你拒绝送她去教堂和学校。

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You give someone the cold shoulder when you refuse to speak to them.

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I have said to you, "Let my son go, that he may worship Me," yet you refuse to let him go.

我已经告诉过你，“让我的孩子离开，他要崇拜我“,但是你却不让他走。

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Will you truly refuse to accept the law of gravity?

你真得能拒绝接受万有引力定律吗？

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"You refuse to acknowledge you have lost money and therefore you are poor, " he says.

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Besides, how can I ask you to like me, when I myself must refuse to like you or anything else?

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The morale in the office will quickly rise back to its usual cheeriness if you refuse to let your co-workers dwell in their eggnog-induced daze.

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