Or they might not want to see you improve as that will make them feel like they are standing still in life.

或者，他们可能不想看见你改变，因为那样就会让他们感觉自己在原地不动。

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If you feel like eating a carton of ice-cream for dinner, you're free to do so, but that won't make you any better,... and you want to be better.

如果你想吃一盒冰激凌作晚餐，你可以随心所欲这样做，但是这丝毫不会使你变得更好，……你还是想变得更好的。

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If you're reading this, though, you're probably looking to get in touch with your more feminine side - those non-physical aspects of yourself that make you feel more like a girl or a woman.

如果你正在阅读本文，你可能希望找到自己身上更有女人味的一面——你身上这些不可名状的东西使你看上去更像一个女孩或女人。

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Our identity is in softly rolling prairies giving way to forested hills, in long stretches of horizon that make you feel like you could see almost to eternity, and in big skies stretched tight above it all.

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Now, the good news is that you can stop actually doing the things that make you look and feel like an idiot, despite the fact that you really want to do them, if you use the right strategy.

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