Life is too short, should not be used to bear grudges.

生命太短暂了，不应该用来记恨。

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We can choose to bear grudges or forgive. With a change of thought, we can tolerate everything.

原谅或怨恨，只是一念心；心念一转，能包容一切。

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The high-minded man does not bear grudges, for it is not the mark of a great soul to remember injuries, but to forget them. —Aristotle, ancient Greek philosopher.

品格高尚的人不怀恨，因为一个伟大灵魂的标志不是牢记自己所受的伤害，而是忘记它们。 —亚里士多德，古希腊哲学家。

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Without thoughtfulness and attention to detail (especially the detail that can be provided by good intelligence), all the military hardware in the world is insufficient to protect a state against others that bear old grudges against it.

ECONOMIST: Britain's military power