Instead simply assume others will make the right decisions and relax and enjoy the time you spend with them, and you'll relieve certain worrying issues rifts without having to say a word.

不如简单地将你苦苦思索的时间用来放松和享受生活，你会减轻某些令人担忧的问题上的裂痕，而不必说一句话。

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Some argued that the Bible teaches that only men can lead the Church, others were concerned that allowing women bishops would create deeper rifts with the Catholic Church at a time when Christian unity is needed.

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