Do it for yourself. For a long time, I self-righteously told myself that I made certain efforts “for the team.” While this sounded generous, it led to a bad result, because I sulked when my husband or whoever didn't appreciate my efforts. Now, I tell myself, “I'm doing this for myself. This is what I want.” I want to send out Valentine's cards. I want to organize the cabinets. This sounds selfish, but in fact, it's less selfish, because it means I'm not waiting for a gold star. No one else even has to notice what I've done.
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This sounds selfish, but in fact, it's less selfish, because it means I'm not waiting for a gold star.
听上去自私，可是实际上，这不算自私的，因为这说明我没有在等着拿小星星。
On the face of it, this sounds unbelievably selfish and arrogant (which is probably why so many people don't 'get it') so let me explain.
表面上看来，这好像非常自私，傲慢，这也许就是为什么那么多人无法做到的原因，暂且让我这么总结吧。
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