We always think that we are right, but sometime we have to think in others' shoes, then maybe we can feel the same pain or what other person is feeling.

我们总是认为自己是对的，但有时我们需要站在别人立场思考，或许你会感受到同样的伤痛。

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For all things, try to think more about others' situation, and how they feel. When you start to put yourself in other peoples' shoes, you will naturally become"reasonable."

凡事能够设身处地、换位思考，多考虑别人的处境和感受，通了“情”，自然能够达到“理”。

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So the main lesson I want you to get from this is that not only did it matter that you need to put yourself in other people's shoes and think about what their payoffs are.

从中我们得出的主要结论是,不仅你要,站在别人的立场上,思考别人的收益是什么样的

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