I am saying that you should try to accomplish the task on your own first, and if you get stuck, then ask for help.

我说的是，你首先要尝试自己去完成任务，如果你不能完成，再寻求帮助。

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Ask yourself if this is an issue for you, a family member or friend, then consider what you can do to get help.

问问你自己，对你，或是你的家人，朋友来说，这是否是一个问题，然后再考虑你该做些什么来获得帮助。

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Meet with your employees and discuss the overall goals you have for your organization; then ask them what they can do to help achieve these goals and what you can do to help them.

和员工进行面谈，讨论组织的宏观目标；然后问问他们能够为实现这一目标提供什么帮助，而你又能帮他们干些什么。

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In order to recruit those volunteers, leaders must first create a sense of urgency among their employees about the opportunities that lie ahead and then ask for their help in propelling the organization towards those opportunities.

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Then I ask people for help.

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"If you can't give a coherent, responsible answer to the question, 'How can I help you, ' then you don't have the right to ask for help, " Wolkstein advises.

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