After 8 years of responding to lovelorn letters, I've compiled some hints that a husband or wife may have been or will be unfaithful in the near future.

在处理了8年的婚恋咨询来信之后，我总结了几个配偶已经出轨或即将出轨的征兆。

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She exaggerates the merits of a first husband who died shortly after their marriage, browbeats a second to the point that he is unfaithful, and tries to force their daughter to inform on her father.

Nezhat幼年丧母，然后发现自己很难爱与被爱；她夸大那位结婚不久便死去的第一任丈夫的好处，又欲把对婚姻不忠的帽子扣到第二任丈夫头上；还试图让自己的女儿检举她的父亲。

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The discovery that her husband was unfaithful to her was a rude (ie shocking) awakening.

她丈夫对她不忠这个发现让她很气愤很震惊。

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As I slowly got my arms around the place, I would from time to time run across the personality of the unfaithful husband.

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If she returned home, the police were likely to accept her husband's allegations that she had been unfaithful to him because the evidence of a man was always given more credence than that of a woman.

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