Well if I look at the ones I've been involved in (including deals my partners led but where I Shared the pain of loss) there are two primary reasons.

如果透过那些我参与的(包括收购我的合伙人，我也痛感亏损)看，有两个主要原因。

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(even in cases of suicide, often the deceased person, was not in their right frame of mind) finding the good that can come out of the pain of loss, finding comfort and healing.

即使他们是自杀，往往也是在死者情况下的正确心态。寻找良好的机会可以使你从所受创伤的痛苦中脱离出来，寻求安慰和伤痛的愈合。

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I think, in part, we mythologize sacrifice, ennoble it with layer upon layer of redemptive they-did-not-suffer-and-die-in-vain meaning, because it enables us to bear the pain of loss.

我想，我们神话牺牲者，给他们批上一层救赎的外衣，认为他们的苦难和死亡并非毫无意义而更显尊贵，在某种程度上只是为了让我们能承受失去他们的痛苦。

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So, remember all of the little subcommunities that she interacts with have some sort of pain or loss associated with them: the Inamorati Anonymous for example, people who don't want to love.

所以，记住，和她有过相互影响,的那些小区，都有着一定的,痛苦和失落感：,拿“匿名的Inamorati“做例子，那些人不想去爱。

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