If you "re going to a wedding and you want to help out the bride and groom, but they don" t have anything for you to do, consider asking them if they want help cleaning up after the wedding.

如果你将要步入婚仪殿堂，或者想要帮助新郎和新娘但是又帮不上他们什么，记住问问他们是否愿意在婚礼结束后帮助清理会场。

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Don't expect the bride or groom to attend to the details on their day.

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Regardless, in most cases, the bride can't even legally indulge in her own champagne toast.

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