We've seen quite a lot that when a boy breaks up with a girl, the girl makes a scene and begs the boy to stay, or when a boy is dumped by his girlfriend, he turns his love to hatred.

这样的画面我们看了太多了：当男孩跟女孩提出分手时，女孩大哭大闹，求着男孩不要走。或者男孩被女孩给耍了，他便由爱生恨。

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It's the hatred for the opponent that drives the winner to fight and stay one step ahead.

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