Start with yourself. Ask yourself what part of the argument is your responsibility.

问一下自己，争论中的哪一部分是你的责任。

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Ask yourself questions that start with "What" instead of "Why".

问自己一些以“什么”而不是“为什么”开头的问题。

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Experts say you should start with yourself.

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But the key is not to start with yourself as the hero.

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Far better to start with a story and then to ask yourself the most important and least asked (in my opinion) question in decision making: what could change my mind?

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Amazon tends to be more do-it-yourself, with a tilt towards start-ups.

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