Perhaps the most significant factors center on abuse, the immaturity of one spouse or the other, and quite simply the lack of things in common.

最重要的因素可能是某一方的陋习和不成熟，以及仅仅因为缺乏共同的东西。

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Controlling the money so the spouse does not have access and then refusing to pay for a spouse 's necessities or insurance is indeed a form of abuse.

控制钱而不让配偶得到并且拒绝支付配偶必要的支出或保险事实上是一种虐待。

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Controlling the money so the spouse does not have access and then refusing to pay for a spouse's necessities or insurance is indeed a form of abuse.

控制钱款不让配偶获得，以及拒绝为配偶支付必需品和保险是错误的。

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Also, in all but severe cases of spouse abuse, the government prefers family counseling and mediation rather than arrest and jail.

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Making major financial decisions without input from the requesting spouse (Wife, in our example) could be an example of both abuse and financial control by the nonrequesting spouse.

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One of the factors that is considered in innocent spouse cases is the existence of abuse.

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