In fact, according to developmental psychologist David Elkind, United States society tends to push children so rapidly that they begin to feel stress and pressure at a young age.

事实上，据发展心理学家大卫·艾尔金德所说，美国社会急于催促逼迫孩子，以至于他们在很小的时候就开始感受到了压力。

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A lot of my friends got married, had children and I'm not part of that because I'm not physically there, so you feel like you're losing out.

我的许多朋友结了婚，有了孩子，但我不属于他们中的一员，因为我的灵魂不在那，所以你的感觉好像是输掉了。

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You will feel so alive this Mother's Day that the gifts and flowers will have more meaning for you and your children.

你会在这一天感觉更有活力，礼物和鲜花对你和你的孩子来说也赋予了更多的意义。

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I feel that I am learning. So I am constantly trying to learn along with the children."

VOA: special.2010.07.16

Social critics like to say that in children's activities these days, everyone gets an award just for trying, so no one will feel rejected.

VOA: special.2009.03.12

And I said -- I thought, I want to be able to conduct my life and my presidency so that all the parents of the country could feel good if their children were able to say that again.

CNN: Transcript: Clinton's remarks at Orlando fund-raiser

Herders rely on their children's labour, so many feel that time spent leafing through books is wasted.

ECONOMIST: Why the Masai send their slower children to school

Hence the exhausting cycle of constantly monitoring their work and performance, which in turn makes children feel less competent and confident, so that they need even more oversight.

NEWYORKER: Spoiled Rotten