So instead of being reassuring and comforting, he offers advice, asks probing questions or tells her not to be so upset.
因此，他不去安慰鼓励她，反而提出建议，提些探索性问题，或告诉她不要那么烦。
The latter scenario would require some therapeutic healing work, so start by reassuring your girlfriend about how you feel about her, then respectfully suggest she seeks some decent counselling.
对于后者，我们需要进行一些治疗创伤工作。所以，你可以在一开始向你的女朋友保证，你很在乎她；然后礼貌地建议她进行一些有效的辅导。
It is very reassuring that cases so far are not worse.
但很肯定的是，到目前为止，情况还不是太过于糟糕。
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