Instead of trying to disidentify from the ego, we need to embrace the ego while merging it with a sense of oneness.

不要试图从 自我作出错误的识别，我们需要在把 自我 与“ 单一性 ”的观念相合并的同时，要去包容 自我 。

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Ego is the sense of I am an individual separate from the All. In the extreme, it is egotism.

小我就是这样一种感觉：我是与一切万有相分离的个体。到了极致就是自我中心。

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To see if a bruised ego can actually cause aggression, they manipulated 90 volunteers' sense of power and self worth using tried and tested psychological techniques.

为了弄清自尊受到伤害是否真能引发侵犯，他们运用可靠的心理学技术，刺激九十位志愿者的权力感和自尊心。

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"It takes someone of his outsize personality and--I mean this in the best sense of the word--of his ego to pull all of it off as grandly and efficiently as he does, " says NBC's Tom Brokaw, a guest in June.

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In order to get Dirksen on his side, Johnson told his administration team and congressional leadership to play to Dirksen's ego and sense of history.

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