Richard Reeves, director of Demos, argued that "tough love" was successful because it built up a child's self-esteem but also taught them to be restrained and respectful.

德莫斯的主任理查德·里夫斯认为，“严厉的爱”之所以成功，是因为它为孩子建立了自尊，也教会他们自制和礼貌。

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Their design should therefore be both neutral and restrained leaving room for the user's self-expression.

因此，“工具”设计必须中立与克制，需要留给用户自我表现的空间。

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This may be a puzzlement to those around you because most of the time you are so self-restrained and in perfect control.

这对你周围的人来说，可能会很不解，因为你大部分时候都非常地自制跟处在完美控制下。

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How many self-important people are there in positions of power, restrained by ethics or decorum from telling us all what they really think, and only a few keystrokes away from doing so?

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