Finding that there is a prevalence of self-change experienced when a romantic relationship ends provides a testament to the power of loss that impacts one's sense of self.

爱情关系结束时，个体普遍会经历自我概念的改变，这一发现为“关系丧失”——会影响一个人的自我意识——的影响力提供了证明。

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When one is in love, one always begins by deceiveing one's self, and one always ends by deceiving others.

爱，始于自我欺骗，终于欺骗他人。

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Sometimes, this atavistic tendency ends in tears, when it prompts us to act contrary to what is, on reflection, our self-interest. (Witness stock-market crashes, stampedes and tamagotchi.)

但是有时候这种原始性的行为倾向以悲剧告终——当它促使我们在经过考虑之后向着与自身利益相反的方向行动的时候(股票市场崩盘，一大群人惊慌奔逃和玩电子鸡游戏的现象都说明了这一点)。

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But Gomez ends "Try to Remember" on a positive note, as Gabi gains self-confidence, educates herself and finds the strength to become an independent young woman.

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So ends the blatant self-promotion.

FORBES: Warning: Blatant Self-Promotion.

People generally pursue their own interests, however they choose to define it, and one of the virtues of free market institutions is that the generally channel that pursuit of self-interest toward socially beneficial ends.

FORBES: Iniquity, Irresponsibility, and/or Incentives?

Turning from means to ends, what about self-interest?

ECONOMIST: The benevolence of self-interest | The