This is a form of self-rejection.

这是自我厌弃的一种形式。

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The real trap, however, is self-rejection.

真正的陷阱，是自我弃绝。

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Over the years, I have come to realize that the greatest trap in our life is not success, popularity, or power, but self-rejection.

多年来，我逐渐意识到生命中最大的陷阱其实不是成功，名声，或者权力，而是自我弃绝。

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For instance, there may be feelings of worthlessness, loneliness, panic, anger, guilt, rejection, self-hatred or confused sexuality.

CNN: Self-injury/cutting

Other factors involved in loneliness include individuals' levels of social skill, fear of rejection, and self-confidence, Leary said.

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