Rather than stating, "I hate public speaking" or "I'm bad with computers," say: "What do you do to control your nerves when you speak in public?"

不要说“我讨厌在公众面前讲话”或“我一点儿也不会用计算机”，而是说“当你在公共场合发言时，你怎么控制你的紧张情绪呢？”

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Many people hate to wait, choosing as little as $50 today rather than wait a year to get $100.

许多人不喜欢等待，会选择今天就拿到50美元，而不是一年后拿到100美元。

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He will seek rather to discover and remove the impersonal causes of evil than to hate the men who are in its grip.

即使邪恶当前，他宁愿寻讨其中与个人无关的原因，连根拔除，而不愿仇视为此裹挟的个人。

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Today, looking out from his church opposite the Omagh army base and its 20ft high security walls, that is a conversation he still wants to have with people he has come to pity rather than hate.

BBC: Living with the Omagh legacy

Rather than hate the showman-like aspect of Jobs though, better to appreciate it.

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While medicine is coming to realize the importance of physicians functioning as quarterbacks rather than as lone rangers, patients often expect Dr. Lone Ranger, and doctors hate to disappoint them or diminish their own reputation with their patients.

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