We praise them for hard earned success and achievements.
我们赞扬他们来之不易的成功和成就。
And when they do what you want them to do, praise them generously.
当他们做你想做的事情的时候,你就要慷慨地表扬他们。
That is why every time they clean up their toys or dirty laundry, we praise them - so that they continue down the road they started.
这也就是为什么每次他们清洁玩具或脏衣服时,我们表扬他们——为的是他们能善始善终。
One who has kissed the Blarney stone, so the story goes, can speak words of praise so smoothly and sweetly that you believe them, even when you know they are false.
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Because there is a lot of research that shows when we praise people indiscriminately, we are actually in the long run potentially hurting them more than helping them, whether it's their wellbeing,as well as their success.
因为有很多研究显示,当我们不加区别地赞扬别人,我们实际上是在长期地,默默地伤害他们,而非帮助他们,无论是对他们的幸福感,还是成功。
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