If so, you not only lose your lover, but also lose yourself, and you will suffer double losses.

如果这样，你不但失去了你的恋人，同时还失去了你自己，你会蒙受双倍的损失。

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If you take on more work than you can handle, not only will you have problems meeting deadlines, but the quality of your work and your relationships (both personal and work-related) will suffer.

如果你的工作量超过了你能应酬的范围，那么不仅你不能完成最后的期限，你工作的质量，你的客户关系都将会受到威胁。

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Su: but if so, you not only lose your lover, but also lose yourself, you will suffer double losses.

苏：但如果这样，你不但失去了你的恋人，同时还失去了你自己，你会蒙受双倍的损失。

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What if you only suffer emotional distress from a ruined vacation, upsetting sanitation, etc?

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You cannot exploit the inconsistencies, you can only suffer from them.

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What if you suffer only emotional injuries?

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