Are you on equal footing with her?

你和她的地位平等吗？

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Expedia's aim is to get its U.S. domestic and international revenue on equal footing.

Expedia的目标是实现美国国内和国际收入持平。

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And even those in the most loving marriage recognize that earning money puts them on equal footing with their husbands — and protects them in case that marriage ends.

即使在婚姻最美满的妇女都知道，挣得到钱就可以让他们和丈夫平起平坐，即使有一天婚姻走到了尽头，也可以很好的保护自己。

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"I think the best marriages do that on equal footing across the board even though in certain areas one person may be contributing more than others."

VOA: special.2010.02.19

You had--They had--They worked together for a common goal, the military supported bringing these people together, and they were brought together on an equal and fair footing.

他们为了一个共同目标而合作，军队是这些人发生接触的社会支持，他们的接触是处于一个平等公平的地位。

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"This is a document that puts us on an equal footing and puts obligations on the two of us, which forces us to have an election that satisfies the criteria for democracy,"

VOA: standard.2009.11.01

This makes it seem as if antibiotics and medicinal plants are on equal footing here: they are not.

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Society is rapidly progressing to the point where any Googler is on equal footing with a Widener Library pass-holder.

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They are beginning their careers already on equal footing with their male counterparts.

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