It's a well-known fact that many people — men and women alike — feel it's OK to let themselves go once the wedding vows are exchanged.

众所周知，很多人(男人和女人差不多)认为一旦他们的相互承诺婚姻誓言后，他们就可以放任自流了。

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OK, so the study only looked at 16 men.

这项研究只调查了16名男子。

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Not surprisingly, the men largely felt ok watching a violent film, and the women enjoyed the love story.

果如所料的是，男性绝大部分都觉得看暴力片无所谓，女性更喜欢爱情片。

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"Not everyone has gotten the memo that it's OK for men to cry, " he says.

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What I take out of the article is that it is ok for men to do all the things that come along with a career, but not for women to do the same.

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And it's going to also take a full partnership with the community to end a culture of violence where young men believe it's OK to attempt to resolve disputes with violence, including guns.

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