"Not everyone has gotten the memo that it's OK for men to cry, " he says.

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What I take out of the article is that it is ok for men to do all the things that come along with a career, but not for women to do the same.

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And it's going to also take a full partnership with the community to end a culture of violence where young men believe it's OK to attempt to resolve disputes with violence, including guns.

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