Yet recruiters and hiring managers say many unemployed candidates blow the opportunity by appearing desperate or bitter about their situations — often without realizing it.

但是不少招聘官和人事经理反映，很多失业的应聘者对于自己的处境所表现出的绝望或痛苦毁掉了他们的机会。而他们常常意识不到这一点。

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Yet recruiters and hiring managers say many unemployed candidates blow the opportunity by appearing desperate or bitter about their situations -- often without realizing it.

但是不少招聘官和人事经理反映，很多失业的应聘者对于自己的处境所表现出的绝望或痛苦毁掉了他们的机会。 而他们常常意识不到这一点。

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"Shy people send out signals of coolness or withdrawal, often without realizing it," says psychologist Arthur Wassmer, author of Making Contact: a Guide to Overcoming Shyness.

著有《保持联系：克服害羞指南》一书的心理学家阿瑟·沃斯默说：“害羞的人发出冷漠或退缩的信号，并且常常意识不到。”

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There are all sorts of reasons parents may be "unfair" to one of their children -- often without realizing it.

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They pay extraordinarily high fees for those funds, often without realizing it, and must accept the returns of managers selected by the plan administrator.

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When we think about our goals in terms of potential gains, we automatically (often without realizing it) become more comfortable with making mistakes and accepting the losses we may have to incur along the way.

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