We need to be using it, not stifling it.
我们需要使用它，而不是扼杀它。
It becomes stifling because one does not know to deal with it when it actually comes.
当问题来临，人们不知道如何处理，问题变得令人窒息。
Not quite ready yet to become their Destiny, it pushed them close, drove them apart, it barred their path, stifling a laugh, and then leaped aside.
只因为尚未完全准备好他们的命运之神未来到，他们一会儿被拉近，一会儿被分开，命运就如此这般阻挡他们的路，却还在一旁默默地窃笑，之后便跳到了一旁。
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