Past the age to be in the Scene, past even the Midlife-Crisis, he won't go to the Rockfete that threatens him Be there or be boring, nor even the street festival that promises Live-Musik und vieles mehr Fun.
When people are mindful of balancing skill and challenge so that cooking, or shopping, is neither so easy as to be a boring chore nor so hard as to be an anxious-making annoyance pushing the limits of competence and time then enjoyment can be found and increased.