Not because I actually use it to boost mysexlife in between the urgent searches for cat pictures, but because it seems to me to be the adult way of dealing with such things.
My husband has no complaints about our sexlife, my attention to "wifely" matters such as housecleaning and cooking, or my future desire to have children, and I think you will find that the majority of my peers and their spouses share opinions and lifestyles very similar to my own.