Why does the memory of years of happy marriage turn to gall when our partner is revealed to have had a lover all those years?

是因为事后才明白它的背后掩盖着不可告人的事实？为什么当我们的所爱在那些年里有了新欢而多年幸福的婚姻回忆转而变成怨恨呢？

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You cannot capture a memory of a great story told, a deal closed, a friend or lover met or a meal eaten, slap it on a t-shirt or baseball cap and sell it.

FORBES: Elaine's bids farewell, as all hotspots eventually must.