"The downside obviously is that it doesn't make couples feel good in the moment to do that," McNulty said.
麦克纳尔蒂说,一个很明显的不足就是,它会使夫妇当时的感觉不是很好。
There's evidence to suggest negative exchanges motivate partners to change and avoid the bad behavior in the future, McNulty said.
有证据显示,消极的对抗反能促使伴侣改变,在未来改掉那些坏习惯。McNulty说。
The couples that faced severe problems did better to the extent that they were slightly more negative” in their behavior, McNulty said.
“那些面临着严峻问题却表现更好的夫妇,他们的行为反而更加地消极”, McNulty说。
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