It requires from you to make yourself understand that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny.

你需要让自己明白，有些人是你历史的一部分，但不是你命运的一部分。

youdao

Make yourself understand that what whips you isn't defeat, but your mental attitude toward it. Train yourself to look for the seed of equivalent benefit in every disappointment you face.

使你自己了解打倒你的不是挫折，而是你面对挫折时所抱的心态，训练自己在每一次不如意中，都能发现和挫折等值积极面。

youdao

It can be difficult to see yourself from the outside, but knowing who you are, namely self-awareness, can help you understand feelings and make friendships closer.

从外界认识自己是很难的，但是知道自己是谁，也就是拥有自我意识，可以帮助你理解感情，拉近友谊。

youdao

What about that case? Well, I think if we were doing a matter of physics, as it posed to--sort of psychology Psychologically we understand why, losing weight might make a real difference about how you feel about yourself.

这个案例该如何解释，我认为，如果我们在研究物理问题，或者，心理学问题,从心理学的角度我们明白原因，减肥可以让你,自己感觉非常不一样。

耶鲁公开课 - 死亡课程节选

You have to stay true to yourself and make sure that in either situation you understand how the role you are applying for relates to your interest in CSR.

FORBES: Should Job Candidates List CSR on Their Resumes?