A man needs to understand that a woman's objectiveis not to make him wrong; it's to help him and he should not take things personally.

男人需要了解的是，女人的目的不是指出他的错误，而是帮助他，而他不应按个人观点看待问题。

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I had rather cut God out of my life, and I didn't have the nerve at the time to ask Him to make my daughter well -i only asked Him to help me understand, to let me come in and reach Him.

一度把上帝从生命中忽略了，所以那时我并没有勇气祈求他让我的女儿康复，而是请他让我理解他，让我能够更接近他。

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Then tell him about some of your special memories in order that he can understand more about why you are so keen to make a big fuss on someone's birthday.

去看看他喜不喜欢他的家人做事的方式，并且告诉他一些你特别的回忆，这样他就会更理解为什么你很渴望把生日办得很隆重了。

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My mother is yelling at Neal and trying to make him understand something.

NEWYORKER: Gravel

It advises patients to make sure they understand fully what the doctor is saying - getting him or her to repeat it if necessary.

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Obama sought souls that would understand him and take in the simple message: You are strong enough to make peace with the Palestinians, grant them an independent state, and in this way you will not lose the Jewish, democratic identity of your state.

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