To judge the difference for yourself, say your name and see if the first sound is made purely 4with your tongue and lips (so a "soft" name) or if you use your throat.

要亲自作鉴别，说说自己的名字，看看第一个音是不是单纯靠舌头和嘴唇发出的（这就是“柔和”的名字），还是说需要用喉咙。

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But you were born into great fame, obviously though, you have made your own name for yourself and you've been a huge celebrity in your own right for several years now.

CNN: Interview with Abhishek Bachchan