But the rejected lover or mate cannot afford to be-lieve that his beloved.
但是，遭离弃的情人或配偶无法相信他的心上人是主动地背离他的——因而他归咎于插足。
The truth is, we need both kinds of relationships to be happy and fulfilled, and we should never think we have to choose between only having a lover or mate, or having friendships.
事实是，我们需要这两种关系才能幸福快乐，我们绝对不能只选择情人或配偶或者朋友之中的一个。
But the rejected lover or mate cannot afford to believe that his be loved has freely turned away from him--- and so he ascribes sinister or magical properties to the interloper.
但是，遭离弃的情人或配偶无法相信她的心上人是自由地背离他的——因而他归咎于插足者心术不正或迷人有招。
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