Friend, very good thing. But, I am your peculiar friend, love your person!

朋友，很好的东西。然而我是你特殊的朋友，爱你的人！

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Although say that you also have the right choice to love your person and person whom you love.

虽然说你也有权利选择爱你的人和你爱的人。

youdao

But does not love your person, you pay again many, he is again good, that also only is wastes the time and the energy.

而一个不爱你人，你付出的再多，他再好，那也不过是浪费时间和精力。

youdao

But if the person who won your heart does not love you, then you are sure to have a broken heart.

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The one who didn't really love you that much but then starts to show you that they love you, that person is a powerful influence on your behavior.

爱你不深的人,开始对你示爱，这样的人会强烈影响你的行为。

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And these aren't necessarily so incompatible but the evolutionary perspective I think would argue that you can feel that kind of love for more than one person or at least it would facilitate the passing on of your genetic material to a larger array of the next generation.

两种观点不太相容,但是持进化论观点的人认为,你可以和两个以上的人拥有完美式的爱情,至少会促进,你的基因传给更多下一代的人。

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How about trying to play it cool and stop yourself from calling (or emailing, or texting) your love interest by blocking out all thoughts about that person?

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