Must everything be subjected to instruction and manuals, as if love were a kind of cooking school?

难道什么事都必须照着指示或者手册上说的去做，好像爱情就是某种厨师学校一样？

youdao

Covet ye therefore my words, and love them, and you shall have instruction.

所以你们应思慕我的话，珍爱我的话，如此，你们必深受教益。

youdao

And even though it's fairly obvious what's doing that, they still misattribute that arousal to " "I must be falling in love," even with that obvious a--even with that obvious an instruction.

即使引起这些反应的原因非常明显，他们还是会产生性错觉,“以为这是爱的力量“,即使很明显，这是由于痛击实验引起的紧张。

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