When parents guide children through these tasks in a non-judgmental, honest manner, they mirror the children's worth and lovability.

家长用一种非指责式的、诚实的方式引导孩子走过这些阶段，孩子们就能看到自己的价值，也就知道自己是值得被爱的。

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And while lovability is no substitute for competence, we will do almost anything for those we love.

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