The best way to approach this: Present each other with a copy of your net-worth statement, a simple list of all your assets and liabilities.

讨论的最佳方式是：给对方一份自己的净价值表，简明扼要地列出你的资产和负债项目。

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Make a list of all your assets and liabilities and take a careful look at where you stand.

列出所有你的资产和负债，仔细看看你的立场。

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Then list all of your liabilities, and begin eliminating expenses you can temporarily live without, such as vacations, entertainment and possibly services like gardening and housecleaning.

然后列出你所有的花销。然后将那些暂时不需要的开销，例如度假、娱乐、园艺服务、房屋打扫服务这些减去。

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