But men, like you, who come from the secular world think arrogance appropriate.
但如你这样的人，来自世俗世界会认为傲慢是合适的。
Like single women everywhere, I had bought into the idea that the problem must be me, that there was some essential flaw - arrogance, low self-esteem, fear of commitment - that needed to be fixed.
跟到处的单身女人一样，我植入的思想就是问题肯定在我，有些关键的缺点需要改进——傲慢啦，不够自重啦，害怕承诺啦。
Arrogance may seem like confidence, but my belief is that it's a form of insecurity - the opposite of confidence.
傲慢有时候看上去像是自信，但我相信那其实是缺乏安全感的一种表现形式——这正好是自信的反面。
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