This makes him feel incompetent and a failure or that she is probably blaming him for her problems.

这样一来，男人会产生无能和挫败感，他觉得女人很可能把问题归咎于他。

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After three hearings to determine his competency to stand trial, Edwards was found at times to be incompetent and was sent to a hospital where he was restored to competence.

在经过三次确认其是否有能力受审的审讯后，他被判为间或无能力受审并被送往医院治疗直至能接受审判。

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The man was a fool, he thought, or at least incompetent.

他想，那人是个傻子，或者至少是无能。

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But to make it seem as though she was universally hated or incompetent is a gross mischaracterization.

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However, this is only ever likely to be effective if those involved feel psychologically safe, meaning they will not self-censor for fear of being seen as obstructive, negative, incompetent, not a team player, or for putting an otherwise amicable working relationship at risk.

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As a result, most wrongly convicted poor defendants now face a catch-22: to prove their original lawyer incompetent, they must find a highly competent lawyer to navigate the bigger appeal hurdles recently erected, although behind bars they are in an even worse position to do that.

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