Instead of looking at the situation from this hopeless angle, look at everything you still have and be thankful for all of the good in your life.

与其从绝望的角度看待现在的情况，不如看看你还拥有的一切，并对生活中所有美好的事物心存感激。

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Does it mean that you have to be all these things in order to attract beautiful women into your life?

想要吸引漂亮的女生进入你的生命是否就意味着你一定要具备所有这些东西呢？

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Indeed, the etiquette in this situation calls for you to ape his behavior — take out your smartphone and pretend to check all the things going on in your life.

确实，碰到这样的场合，礼数会告诉你去模仿他的行为——同样掏出你的手机，假装查看上面发生的所有事情。

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And also as one lives one's life, you take in all your experiences.

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The most altruistic behavior of all, giving your life to help another, can be explained in cold-blooded evolutionary terms.

最利他的行为，就是为他人牺牲自己，这也可以用毫无人情味的进化论来解释。

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You have all these extracurriculars and this is your life, whereas in Spain,

你可以自由选择课外课程，但是在西班牙，

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And so my therapist, you know, psychologist was taking me around, trying to just, you know, dip me in a little bit to let me know, you know, this is the business here that you've been in all your life.

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If you can use the holidays to renew your appreciation of all that is good in your life, that can help you pursue your search with an attitude that's most likely to get results.

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That flexibility will serve you well in all areas of your life.

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