You become the “nice guy/girl” who is always out there to help people but think little about yourself which in the long run can become pretty unhealthy.

你成了“好好人”，因为你总是在帮人忙这忙那，却很少考虑你自己。 长期来说，这样是很不好的。

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You need a hero to help you, and having that hero, encountering the other mind as helper, is what obviates the tendency, even in a nice guy like Tony, toward narcissism which is manifest in the "I," "I," "I" at the beginning of the story.

他能帮助你，有了他的帮助，就可以避免自我陶醉的趋势，即便是托尼这么好的人，也可能会有这一趋势,总是用，“我“，“我“，“我“来开头。

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