You can still have cake day, but don’t guilt someone into standing in front of the group if she doesn’t want to.

你们当然仍然可以分享生日蛋糕，但是，如果“寿星”不想站在众人面前，也不要勉为其难，让人家产生负罪感。

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If people with the crime status instigating or exploiting those who do not have the crime status but have the capacity to perpetrate a status crime, both are direct guilt.

有身份者教唆、利用无身份而有刑事责任能力的人实施真正身份犯，有身份者和无身份者均构成直接正犯；

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Don't expect to overcome guilt overnight. If you have lived with guilt for a long time, it may take a while to learn how to accept forgiveness.

不要期待着彻夜之间克服愧疚感。如果你感到愧疚有很长一段时间了，那么可能要花时间才能学会如何接受原谅。

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