Every year I have to put my tree away, but not my marriage or friendships. I take great care of those.

每年我都不得不把圣诞树搁置起来，但我从不搁置我的婚姻和友情，而是小心地经营它们。

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When my mother passed away, my brother and I put all her belongings in storage and we waited a few years to go through those items because the pain was so deep.

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