He suggests a remedy: to predict what's likely to make you happy in the future, ask someone who is having that experience at the moment.

他建议的一个补救方法是：要预测什么能让你快乐，问一问此刻正经历那种体验的人。

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The phenomenon is reminiscent of a group that, having survived a near-death experience, now feels the need (and has the confidence) to talk about it.

这让我想起了这样一个群体：他们从几近死亡的经历中幸存下来，现在觉得有必要（同时有信心）谈论自己的经历。

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on the one hand, " and "Why are the things that are missing ?" from the experience machine worth having?"

此外还有，“为什么体验机器里没有的东西,“值得拥有“

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But, how many of you didn't experience it as understanding why you were having that response to Humbert, but just having it?

但是，你们当中有多少人并不理解自己对Humbert的反应,但就是那样反应着？

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For example, I can-- and having the past experience-- envy towards my best friend, that in and of itself does not make me a bad person.

举个例子，我可以…,因为以前的经历-,嫉妒我最好的朋友，那种情绪本身不代表我是个坏人。

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The quality of being human is tested (unintelligible) what one had experienced growing up and I'm still having that experience.

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Ask anyone who played for Carm Cozza , head coach, and his first-rate coaching staff, and they will tell you that having that experience was the highlight of their time at Yale.

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It says something about the political class today that the experience of having served in the military is such a rarity that it is seen, not infrequently, through a distorting lens.

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