Your spouse might briefly hate you if you go for it, but over the next 5 years she’ll come to resent you even more after you’ve become jaded, passionless, and have lost your way.

你的配偶或许会讨厌你做那件事，但是5年后她会更厌烦你没有激情，毫无目标。

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People resent and even hate the wealthy.

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Ms. HEATHER CARDERO: Well, I'm an independent but I hate Rick Santorum so much that I'm going to vote for Casey, who I honestly resent that I have to vote for him because I want a Democratic Congress to have more checks and balances in our government.

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